Sending a private message or whispering to anther member in chat allows you to chat to one peron without everybody else seeing the message.
1. Under online Users, click on the member you want to send a private message to. If this window is not there, youneed to click one the "little people" icon in the bottom right corner.
2. This gives you more options, select "send private message".
3. The text pre-fix will appear in the text box.
4. Type your messge after the pre-fix and press enter to send.
5. Your message will appear in the dialogue box, only you and the member you sent it to can see this, no one else.